Direction: Read carefully
and often; share with others; try to change one thing in your life….and
begin NOW!
- Stress is absolutely
necessary to human existence.
- Without stress, there
would be no life.
- Level of tolerance
with stress differs for each of us.
- Good health is more
than just the absence of illness.
“We make a living by
what we get, but we make a life by what we give.” Norman Maczoan
- Stress can be either
positive (eustress) or negative (distress).
- Mind/body relationships
– inseparable and important to wellness
“What
does not destroy me, makes me strong.” Nietzche
- Learn to be aware
of your personal “smoke signals.”
- Brain – Body –
Behavior – how do these tell you when you are under more stress?
- Exhaustion:
Do you get home, hit the ‘fridge, Haagen-Dazs or Breyers, collapse
on the couch…and this is on a good day??
- Sleep Patterns:
Do you crawl further and further under the covers to drown out the alarm
or sunshine…or do you wake up every 40 minutes…and know all the
sales on QVC or the titles of every Western ever made?
- Eating Patterns:
Do you lose your appetite…or do you hate the people that do and
you eat, eat, eat???
- Sighing:
When you are overwhelmed by expectations and feel you are losing any
sense of control; labored breathing or heavy sighs can be the result.
- Boredom: Are
you in a routine or a rut? Mean and green, with money or envy? Variety
is vital!
- Telephone Tremors:
If you can’t set limits on yourself and other, the telephone will
control you! Use the screener; set rules for when telephone is off limits.
- Clutter:
Look at your desk, office, apartment, car…be honest. It may
be a sign of your life.
- Type A Trap:
Delegate versus doing it all. Enough said.
- Cover Up:
“What do you call it if you don’t have any stress?”…Denial (or
death)
“There
is no exercise better for the heart than reaching down and lifting people
up.” John A. Holmes
- Developing Skills
for Dealing with Stress
- Assess what you have
been doing…honestly
- Choose a habit you
want to change..or something you want to start
- Break down the challenge/problem
into manageable pieces
- Set challenging but
realistic goal..AND time frame
- Consult with coach/counselor/physician/nurse,
etc…to encourage, evaluate goals
- START
- Seeking ongoing support/evaluate…and
Walk the Walk!
"Experience is not what happens to you. It is what you do with what happens
to you." -Aldous Huxley